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Selfish Love

 Every claim of mine to love is useless expression of my own desire. It is not useless to have desire but to hide it in the name of love. 

Proof: My claim till date to love has been for beautiful girls. What if they turned ugly next day. I don’t know what will I do but i am pretty sure I wont hate them for I have no hatred for whomsover irrespective of them pleasant or otherwise for me. But why this feeling arouse for beauty alone. I can’t universalize my feeling (using Kant whom I want to refute or my instinct said he is incomplete 😀😀) for everyone. Hence it is only irrational behavior. Even if desire it should be expressed as it is. It is definitely for this reason not a love.

What is love then? Brihadanayaka Upanishad said Aditi the divine mother created this world for eating. So all rest in peace after birth. What do we do then? Are we less than our mother? No we are not, we are roaming here and there for consumption too. What do we consume? What is not ourselves. We don’t consume ourselves. We love what we don’t want to eat out. That oneness is love. Aye aye here it is universal. 

Kant my Boss, it is universal because everything is everything as it is from One and it rest in One. From One to One everything is process of realization of One. 

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